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Being friends first dating

You can have a friendship without a relationship, but you can’t have a relationship without a friendship.There are so many reasons to be friends before you start dating someone and decide to commit to them.

We are always well put together, well behaved, and well mannered.

Of course, we should consistently try to be these things as often as humanly possible, but the fact of the matter is that we are all going to have bad days. Life throws us curveballs – and expecting a shining exterior every second of every day is not only unrealistic, but it is also dishonest. How are you going to survive your 4-hour drive in the car together? We need this type of comfort to just be able to sit with each other in silence and not feel a nagging urge to say or do something to break the silence. It’s not like you are going to choose a random person off the street – but what’s more is that your friends know how you think and you know how they think.

I think a big issue with relationships these days is that people (particularly men) separate the idea of a relationship from the idea of a friendship.

That being said – I have my own thoughts and opinions on the concept of men and women being able to be ‘just friends’ with each other with no tension or desire for something more. Whether or not men and women can be just friends should not separate the two concepts altogether.

But, when probed further, one third said they secretly lusted after their male friends.

It seems that physical attraction is often a byproduct of a concrete and strong companionship.

Also, they never win because if everything is then you will never learn what will make your partner happier and therefore never be able to work on it. Have you ever had a friend who you can go weeks, months, or even years without seeing – but when you do finally get together again it’s like nothing has changed?

Having this type of honesty is essential to a relationship – just always keep in mind friends are never degrading or discouraging, either. Imagine that kind of closeness, that kind of understanding, that kind of comfort, with someone who you are also in love with.

You don’t need to choose if you are going to be friends Women have a far easier time deciding who they want to be just friends with and who they would pursue a romantic relationship with, but men tend to group all women together on the ‘potentially romantic’ side, and then just decide their order of desirability.

For this reason, I also believe men try to actually building a friendship with a woman because he doesn’t want to find himself plunging into the dreaded friend zone, and suddenly be seen more as a brother than a potential boyfriend.

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